Can We Guess How Many Times You've ACTUALLY Been in Love?

By: Tori Highley
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
Can We Guess How Many Times You've ACTUALLY Been in Love?
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About This Quiz

Butterflies in your stomach? Fireworks during a kiss? It could have been love, but more than likely, you had fallen in lust. Enchanting and intoxicating, lust is easy to find and exciting to feel, with lots of passion but little substance. Love is a much deeper connection to another person, and it doesn't come easy. 

True love is built on trust, respect, adoration, and hope. Love builds homes and courage, supporting you both through good and bad. Love impassions you to care more and create more, and it encourages you to be more yourself than ever before. Love takes time, tenderness, intention, and inspiration. It is so much more than desire and infatuation, and it is so painful and scarring to lose this love. 

When you are head-over-heels, it is hard to separate your love from lust. However, your feelings about amorous details easily reveal the truth of your romantic history. From falling in true love over and over to simply having passionate flings throughout time, only your truest loves will stand out in our scrupulous love quiz. Let us guess how many times you have fallen in love!

How many times have you truly been in love? Our quiz will help you find out!

Which hunky Hollywood star would you rather take a selfie with?
Ryan Gosling
Chris Pratt
Jake Gyllenhaal
Paul Rudd
Which flower is most romantic to you?
Red roses
Lilies
Orchids
Daisies
Which trait is most important to you in a relationship?
Passion
Respect
Honesty
Vulnerability

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Which vacation is best for a romantic getaway?
A cruise
An inclusive resort
A camping trip
A cute bed and breakfast
Which feature is most attractive on another person?
Their eyes
Their jawline
Their smile
Their hands
What is a big relationship dealbreaker for you?
Disagrees about kids
Disrespects my family
Bad relationship with substances
Smells bad

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Who do you go to for love advice?
My best friend
My sibling
My mother
My therapist
Which romantic gesture would grab your attention?
A love poem
A mix tape
Dancing with me
Cooking me food
How can you tell when you have fallen in love?
My mom likes them.
My personal habits have changed to accommodate this new person in my life.
I get excited for their achievements.
I want to talk to them everyday.

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Which low-budget wedding location is the sweetest?
My parents' backyard
A beach with white sand
Local national park
Las Vegas
With an unlimited budget, where would you get married?
A grand French castle
A beach in the Caribbeans
On a beautiful yacht
Under the Aurora Borealis in the Arctic circle
When you get home from a great first date, who is the first person you text about it?
My ex
My mother
My best friend
The person I had the date with!

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Which real-life love story is your favorite?
Michelle and Barack Obama
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle
Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith
Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi
Which love song gives you the most emotions?
"Love Story" by Taylor Swift
"Stay With Me" by Sam Smith
"Work Song" by Hozier
"Someone Like You" by Adele
What is the perfect first date?
Drinks and dancing
Coffee and croissants
Brunch and mimosas
Dinner and a show

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Which homemade gift would you love to receive from your lover?
A beautiful quilt
A watercolor painting of us
Paper flowers
A painted mug
How do you break up with someone when it isn't working out?
I tell them it isn't working out over dinner.
I call and tell them we are better as friends.
I tend to just ignore them until they go away.
I privately tell them we should break up.
What is your favorite way to surprise a loved one?
Sending them cards in the mail
Sending them flowers
Bringing them lunch at work
Little things like clearing their car of snow

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What is your biggest pet peeve about dating?
Texting other people while on the date with me
Talking too much about themselves
Not treating servers with respect
Bragging about money
Where would you love to volunteer with your sweetheart?
After-school sports coaching
The animal shelter
Community theater
At the senior center
What is your favorite thing about your personality?
My charisma
My honesty
My sense of humor
My independence

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Which of these acts of love would make you feel most cherished?
Finding my car washed by my partner
A love note in my work bag
A long candle-lit massage
Getting spoiled while window shopping
What is the best part of cuddling?
Body warmth
Getting comfortable
The trust and intimacy
Accidentally falling asleep
What kind of kiss is your favorite?
French kisses
Forehead kisses
Neck kisses
A lingering kiss

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Where do you dream of meeting your soul mate?
At work
At a used bookstore
On a vacation abroad
At a farmers' market
Which movie do you watch when recovering from heartbreak?
"The Notebook" (2004)
"500 Days of Summer" (2009)
"Titanic" (1997)
"Ghost" (1990)
What kind of home do you envision your family in?
My penthouse condo
A bungalow with a white picket fence
A big cabin in the woods
A Tuscan villa

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Which of these creates the most romantic lighting?
A campfire
Candles
Twinkle lights
Red light bulbs
Which special skill do you find most charming in a date?
The ability to dance well
Able to make their own furniture
Able to sew and repair clothing
Having the voice of an angel
What is your favorite dessert to split?
A giant banana split
A chocolate lava cake
Cheesecake with raspberry drizzle
Chocolate mousse

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