When you're a kid, you worry a lot about your first kiss. You imagine who it will be with and whether you'll be in a relationship with them. You wonder if you will do it right or if you will gross them out or make a mistake somehow. When the moment finally comes, you realize all the people telling you that you'd figure it out were right, and that you do just sort of do it. 

However, you also realize that your first kiss is probably one of the most disappointing kisses you'll ever have (mainly because it is so ludicrously over-hyped). Your second kiss is typically quite a lot better, and then they improve from there. The first kiss you share with your true love is a particularly great one - as are most of the others you share with that person.

Being a good kisser isn't about one particular technique, of course. It's about responding to the person you're with, treating them with respect and passion and a lust that never dehumanizes them - and of course, about raw animal chemistry. It also helps if the two of you simply prefer the same kind of kissing! Perhaps it's time to find out just what kind that is.