Which Gemstone Are You and Your Significant Other?

By: Diana Spasic

5 Min Quiz

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About This Quiz

The healing properties of gemstones and crystals are no secret. Ancient civilizations have been utilizing the power of gems to release physical, mental and spiritual energy blockages. Gemstones facilitate a free energy flow through your body, they help you heal, and they energize you.

However, just like relationships, no two gems are exactly alike. And just like we’re naturally receptive to the exciting vibration of the gems and crystals, we are also receptive to the energy flow that circles our relationships.

Not every crystal is right for everyone. Each of them is a different energy tool and not every person responds the same to these tools. It’s the same with couples; while some might enjoy an energized, adventurous relationship, others might be searching for calm, comforting energy in a partner.

When you hug your partner, the energy flow between you can be compared to the way a gem or crystal has a powerful vibratory effect that connects you to it. Each relationship creates its own universe, and the way we react to that universe is unique to each couple.

What kind of energy flows around your relationship? Are you and your significant other a calm, relaxing aquamarine, or are you a passionate bloodstone? Take this quiz to find out!

How often do you kiss?

All the time

We kiss, but never in front of others.
We’re not that big on kissing.

Once or twice per day

What is your favorite thing to do as a couple out of these four?

Cuddle up, Netflix and chill

Going to a hot club together
Going to the beach

Going on a romantic dinner at a restaurant

How often do you see each other?

Once or twice a week

Every day
Every other day

We’re long distance, so not that often.

When the two of you are apart, do you chat much on social media or via texts?

Yes, we mostly chat on and off all the time.

We rarely chat, only when it’s something important.
We chat when there’s something to talk about.

No, we aren’t big on texting or chats.

Which of these describes your relationships with each other’s friends?

We’ve merged our friends into one large group.

We each have our separate friends, and we like it that way.
I hang out with my partner’s friends sometimes, and vice versa.

We have many shared friends, but we each have our separate ones, too.

Would you say this relationship has altered your life?

It has improved it in many ways.

It brought more fun to it.
Not yet, but you never know!

It has taught me many things.

When you think about your future, do you include your significant other into your plans?

Most of the time, yes

All of my plans include them.
I try to fit them into my personal plans and goals.

No, not really

Do you tell each other everything?

It’s OK to keep a secret or two.

We tell each other everything. Honesty is important.
No, I like keeping my life separate to a certain degree.

No, not everything. I’ve got a best friend for that.

When you look at your partner, how do you feel?

I’m incredibly lucky to have them.

I feel warm and safe.
I feel excited to be with them.

I feel energized and revitalized.

When you get upset, how does your significant other react?

He/she tries to calm me down.

He/she brings me comfort and a shoulder to cry on.
He/she tries to make me laugh.

He/she leaves me alone until I’m calmed.

What is your idea of a perfect vacation together?

Sun, sea, beach, parties

A cozy, romantic cottage in the woods
A romantic getaway to a tropic island

An active vacation with lots of fun

Would you say your relationship is transparent to others, or opaque?

Opaque, we love our privacy.

It’s very transparent.
It’s somewhat transparent.

It’s more opaque than transparent.

Which of these words would best describe your relationship?

Love

Romance
Adventure

Destiny

Where did you two meet?

At work

At a party
On vacation

At a restaurant/cafe

Which word best describes your partner?

Beautiful

Funny
Brave

Cute

What is the most important thing in a relationship?

Respect

Love
Trust

Communication

Do you want to get married?

No, not really

I do, someday.
I’m not sure.

Absolutely!

What do you and your significant other argue about?

Jealousy

Money
Arguments from the past

We don’t argue.

Was it love at first sight?

I don’t believe in love at first sight.

For me it was
No

Yes

What kind of home would the two of you get together?

A luxury penthouse suite

A beautiful house with a big yard in the suburbs
A beach house or cottage

A wooden cabin in the mountains

Do you think your relationship will last forever?

I sure hope so!

Probably not
Maybe

Yes!

How often do you talk about your feelings?

All the time

We’re more into feeling than talking about it.
Rarely

When talk is due, we talk.

Are you social butterflies as a couple?

Yes, we go out all the time and have many friends.

We socialize from time to time.
One of us is an introvert, and the other is an extrovert, so we compromise.

We hang out with a few close friends.

Which of these love quotes from classic literature do you prefer?

“You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.”

“I wish I knew how to quit you.”
“I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely. You are my dearest one. My reason for life.”

“We are asleep until we fall in love!”

Which of these is your favorite romantic movie?

"Dirty Dancing"

"The Notebook"
"Titanic"

"Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"

What is your favorite animated couple?

Cinderella and Prince Charming

Beauty and the Beast
Ariel and Eric

Carl and Ellie from "Up!"

What would you choose to cook for your sweetheart?

Something safe and easy like pasta

Something highly nutritional and healthy like a chicken salad
Burgers, baby!

Something vegan

Which country would you like to live in together?

USA

France
Japan

Spain

What would you say love is?

Magical

In the air
All you need

Not enough

Which color best suits your relationship?

Green

Pink
Red

White

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